And THANK GOONESS for all involved that I’m not. DVH and company know 100 times more about baseball, these kids, and their mindset than I ever will. I know that.
But in this moment, driving home from watching the loss with some friends, I was thinking about what I’d do to turn them around mentally from “oh no . . . here we go again” to being ready to compete and win tomorrow. I came up with this:
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"Guys, that was a kick to the gut. No other way to put it. We all know what happened; we had victory in our hands and frittered it away.
First off, I want to apologize to the team on behalf of the coaches. I’m sorry that, when we missed that foul ball, and then they knocked the game-tying run in, we didn’t take a moment to settle all of you down and get you focused on keeping your heads in the game. We were still tied, and our failure to do that - I believe - led to the HR that pushed the game over to them. We won’t let that happen again.
But here is something I’d like you to ponder over as you rest tonight and prepare for tomorrow. All of us have suffered similar gut-wrenching losses before. It might have been a championship game in AAU ball; or, a football or basketball game you played in against your HS rivals that you lost at the last second. Maybe you lost a State Championship game.
For me, it was XXX (whatever DVH remembers as his most crushing loss as a player). That game has stayed with me all of these years. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve thought “if I had just done this, or that, we’d have won the game”. What I wouldn’t give to have a “do-over” and get to fix that wrong.
But I can’t. It’s over and done.
You guys, however, DO get that chance. Sure, you lost a very tough game tonight. it stings. In your minds, you’re probably going over your at bat with the bases loaded; or with men on first and second with one out. Or, that pop up that we didn’t catch, etc. No, you can’t replay that game and change the results. But you DO have an opportunity to play tomorrow, win the game, and take ALL of the sting out of tonight’s game.
ALL of it.
When you look back at it 10, 20, 30 years from now, the only thing you’ll remember is that you were College World Series Champions. The fact that you lost a game along the way won’t matter one bit.
That’s what you need to be thinking about between now and tomorrow’s game. You’ve got the do-over that I will never get for my loss. Take advantage of it; embrace it. Put this one behind you - tomorrow’s another day, another game, and a Championship just waiting for us to grab it."[/color]