private messages

i am trying to send a private message, and it shows in my outbox, nothing in sent messages. what am i doing wrong?

I believe it stays in your outbox until read by the recipient.

Correct, I was sending my 1st one ever the other day to Matt and thought the same. I sent a 2nd not knowing if I was doing correct, but he responded so thats how it does work

That’s exactly how it works.

I saw it earlier this afternoon and responded.